I want to end our week by drawing your attention to a powerful passage in one of Paul’s letters. Take a look at 2 Corinthians 1.3-7:
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.I have a tough question: What’s the main idea in this paragraph? Okay, so it’s not that tough. Paul is pretty clearly concerned with comfort. More specifically, Paul wants to encourage those who are suffering by reminding them that God can use even their pain to further his mission in the world.
The words “encourage” or “strengthen” are actually better translations of the Greek word used here than “comfort.” Comfort sounds soft and cuddly, protected and serene. The word Paul uses is
parakaleo. It has to parts:
kaleo, which means “to call,” and
para, which means “beside.” When you put the two together, the word means something like “to call to my side.”
Picture a man or woman who is exhausted. Not just tired, but
weary. It hasn’t just been one of those days, but one of those months or years or lifetimes, or at least that’s how it feels. Nothing is going right, and they don’t know if one more step is even possible. Now picture an old grandfather coming up to our friend, placing his arm around her shoulder,
drawing her to his side, and saying, “You may be done for on your own. But you’re not on your own. We are
together, and together we can do this. Together we can move forward. Together we can endure.”
That’s what I think of when I hear this word
parakaleo. And when I think of that grandfather, I see you. Every one of you.
I see you being the comforter, the encourager, the strengthener, the one who puts your arm around the hurting, the lonely, the depressed, the poor, the oppressed, the anxious, the lost, the scared, the confused, and the weary.
“But wait!” you might be saying. “I can’t be the comforter. I
am the one hurting or lonely or depressed or poor or oppressed; I am the anxious, the lost, the scared, the confused, and the weary.”
That’s the point. You are wounded. You have suffered, and perhaps are suffering right now. We are all wounded. We have all suffered. If we did not
share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, neither would
our comfort abound through Christ. If we were not wounded, we would not be able to heal.
As it is – as we are – we are healers.
We are wounded healers.
The good news is not just that we can be free, but that we can participate in the liberation of others. The good news is not just what God has done
for us and
in us, but what God wants to do
through us.
We’ve spent most of our time during this series focusing on ourselves. That’s not always bad, if we do it in the right way. In fact, we’re going to continue talking about how to get our own lives in order (albeit in community with others). But there comes a time to ask how each of us can focus on one another; there comes a time to attend to those who are not receiving attention.
So let me ask you a few simple questions: Who in your life is hurting? Who in your life is lonely or depressed? Who in your world is poor or oppressed? Who in your life is scared? Who in your life is weary? These questions are not hypothetical. Picture someone in your life who is not doing well. Think of someone in our world who needs our help.
Now imagine ways we can comfort and strengthen these people. Imagine something you can do to bring healing and peace to a wounded and broken world. And as you imagine, and as you
go and
do these things, remember your woundedness. Remember that you are not the world’s Savior, but merely a fellow journeyer; remember that you’ll always be a wounded healer.
People don’t want to know you’re perfect. People want to see that you’re beaten and bruised and yet you’re still standing and moving forward. People want to believe there is a way through captivity and bondage to freedom and liberation. People want to know that even though they are wounded, they too can not only be healed but heal.
As we continue to talk about freedom from our past, from our pain, from our addictions, remember how it’s all supposed to end: with each of us, wounded but nevertheless walking on, participating in God’s great mission to heal the world.
Now go! Go and perform some act of kindness, of compassion, of healing. Offer your time and your energy and
your story. Find someone in need and help them – talk to them, listen to them, serve them. Find someone hurting and become a healing presence in their life. Go, experience and share the liberating joy of bringing life and salvation into the world in the name of Jesus, the one who brings life and salvation to us all.
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